On March 18 there was a training seminar “Pedagogical correction of aggressive behavior” at the conference hall of Gornostayevka employment center.
About 40 parents, as well as psychologists, social workers and social services professionals gathered to determine forms of aggression, to diversify their ways of dealing with anger to help children in these matters.

Here are some strategies:
– Physical work (sports as one of the options);
– Switching;
– Privacy (prayer, reading, to be by yourself);
– Communication (real, call a friend /spouse/counselor);
– STOP (not engage in aggressive behavior);
– Pause (count to 10, etc.).
– Breathing exercises (inhale-exhale);
– with children – modeling, drawing and then offer your child to do what he wants with the result of work (options: crush, tear, tread, frame, etc.)

Some interesting thoughts…
* When a person is permanently unable to achieve goals, always sees obstacles that he can not overcome, he can grow into a very aggressive person.
* Emotional intelligence means to feel your emotions and be able to cope with them.
* If a child gets everything he wants at once, he feels bored and requires increasingly strong stimulation to produce endorphins, the feeling of joy and happiness. Therefore, it is important to teach children to postpone obtaining the desired.
* Sometimes the experience of others is like another person’s dress.
* The more parents (especially the mother) satisfy the needs of children, the calmer and less aggressive the child becomes.

And no matter what, it is important to remember that our family relationships, love of parents, directed to God, to each other and the children, our heart, strength, time spent with children and in prayers for them are the main stones in the foundation of a healthy and happy family.